<img src='style_emoticons//laugh.gif’ border=’0′ style=’vertical-align:middle’ alt=’laugh.gif’ /> My commiserations. However, that's the consequences of trying to be 'too nice' to your pet!! Once they are in the bed, they think they own it and it will never be yours again. Maybe you should have introduced it to kitty litter instead!! <img src='style_emoticons//laugh.gif’ border=’0′ style=’vertical-align:middle’ alt=’laugh.gif’ />
Anyway, that doesn't help you . . . it's a shame that cats don't think like dogs – it that way your other cats could show the new one who's boss and how things are done around the house, and then beat him up for you if he gets out of line.
Well, I suggest you keep on with the newie and love him as you are – I hope that he gets used to his new surroundings soon and behaves.
Meanwhile you have to work on being cruel to be kind, it seems!! Harsh I know, but will save you thousands in duvets.